Finding Her Dark Side
All women Submissive’s must have a Dark Side. They all have experienced some type of emotional and /or physical trauma in their lives, just because they are women, and it’s not right. Whether it be from close Family, a Friend, or Husband etc.
A lot of these women allow these demons to live inside their body, deep in her sub-conscious mind. She hides these demons deep, so deep that they go away, but they are there. These demons lay dormant, just waiting, waiting for someone to break them loose. Until someone can cause the demons to rise to the top of her conscious mind.
As a Master, I feel we should know about her demons before we get involved in a scene with this beautiful woman. When we as Masters, first meet with her and gather her history, by asking the right questions, we should have heard her tell us about the demons inside. Too many times we as Doms/Masters are too busy talking, trying to show off for her with our knowledge of BDSM, and we miss the important information she is giving. A good Master will shut up and listen. I was the world’s worst when it came to be listening. Then I had an old Master tell me what I was doing wrong. He said, “Shut Up and Listen! You’re missing her important information.”
A Master must take what he knows about her from her history and find a way to bring out these demons that haunt her. It may take a long time to bring these demons out, but it can be done in our Lifestyle.
In my conversations with the Old Masters, I have come across, they explained a way to accomplish this. And it is keeping with the theme of our Lifestyle.
During a maintenance spanking, you start talking about the abusive trauma she has suffered. Ask her how the people in her life treated her, both the emotional and physical abuse she has suffered. Allow her to tell you while you continue the rhythm of the spanking. Watch her body language, listening to her voice for changes, seeing how emotional she is getting.
You will know when you find her Dark Side because of the way she is crying. When the demons she has been hiding for so long finally do surface and come out she will be sobbing uncontrollably.
This is when you must stop! Take her in your arms and comfort her. Sit together consoling her, wiping her tears, and kissing her face reassuring her that she is safe and that everything is going to be okay. Always allow her to cry for as long as she needs to and continue to reassure her. You will without know it be bring her back to reality.
Once you have taken her that deep into her sub conscious you must continue to console her until she realizes what has just happened in the past few moments. Once she knows that she has released all her will to you, she will feel much better for it. She may even laugh at the experience because now she is free of those past demons.
You have just taken her to the Dark Side of her being. A place so deep inside her, she would have never gone. A place so deep she couldn’t find without her Master’s help.
Looking back on the Dark Side, I’m glad I took the advice and knowledge from the Old Masters, who have helped me to better understand the role of a True Master, and I thank them.
Master William
